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Post by horselady on May 27, 2015 2:39:19 GMT
Prayers that he is getting the fluids in to him and he is going to be ok.
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Post by kskatt on May 27, 2015 2:53:38 GMT
lorddaxter, remember, the water goes through the softener and the purifier. It's not the original well water then. Doesn't that make a difference. Mistersmom, whatever the infection is, it is not a blockage. Sky had been urinating, even when he was not drinking nearly enough. I can't see where the surgery would even come up. Saline, yes of course! I just know that cats are not like us, if they go very long without eating, they go into liver failure. The green (bile) in the vomit scared me because of that. And, he needs to get food into him, somehow. Besides, going without food for days makes me feel very weak. He needs all the strength he can find.
I asked her, the vet, if it is worth it, to Sky. I do not want to cause him pain. I pray that the hydration will perk him up so I know he's not in pain. I'm just feel emotionally drained. The truth is, being worried about Sky I may have gotten 3 hours sleep last night, maybe. It will be better tomorrow.
I may have to get me a gofundme going. The bill for the first stay was $1,087.80. The budget is getting hit.
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Post by hugs on May 27, 2015 3:22:15 GMT
If I was still employed I'd send you money in a heart beat, I'm sorry that I can't help on me
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Post by kskatt on May 27, 2015 4:47:29 GMT
, do not even think about it! The kind of support you give me here is priceless! Here it's just Mom and I. She would have been perfectly fine if I had put him down way back in the beginning. She doesn't understand at all. If I didn't have some place to air my emotions and get feedback and support, I don't know. I'd probably be a basket case.
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Post by lorddaxter on May 27, 2015 12:25:09 GMT
Have you had the water tested, we had really good water at cooking lake, we had a softener and purifier but still didnt drink it, maybe its a british thing!...the water we have here at this house we had tested and while it is classed safe to drink we dont, if we leave some sitting in a bowl after a short time it leaves a lot of white powder in the dish, assuming high in salts?!......I wont even use it to water my plants but Im super paranoid!....but I dont think its an issue for you, do you drink the same water?
Sorry you are struggling, does your vet offer a payment program, sometimes if you ask they will sort something out, I saw this Veterinary Financing Program last time I was in and took the info for clients incase they need it
1 888 689 9876 petcard.ca no down payment, no collateral, competative interest rates, equal monthly payments up to 72 months, high approval rate and more
Please do consider in the future anyone reading this thread look at pet insurance, without it I could not have coped with the vets bills for Canagan, I use TRUPANION, awesome to deal with, never had an issue, for a big dog over the span of 9 years payments were $40-55 month, not that much when you get hit for those big bills:)
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Post by kskatt on May 27, 2015 17:15:23 GMT
Testing the water would be interesting. We drink it all the time. Wouldn't hurt to know what we're drinking.
We use CareCredit. 12 months no interest at all. My dentist started accepting it (CC) several months ago. Pets and people, but not everywhere accepts it.
Oh, insurance would be wonderful. Remember, I have 15 cats, 2 dogs and 5 horses. No way I could afford to insure them all and there's no way to predict who might need it.
I am going to look at the GoFundMe, just see how it works.
The clinic opens at 8am, I waited until about 8:45, to give the vet a chance to check Sky out. Although, I would hope, the vets get there early enough to evaluate the condition of every animal first thing. I simply asked how Sky was doing, the woman that answered went to check, came back and told me that Sky is urinating. Okay, that is the original issue, but we are now working on dehydration, an infection and him not eating. I asked if he had gotten any nutrition, she checked and said he still hasn't eaten. Okay, 2 1/2 days with me, hardly touched food the first (1/2) day, the next 2 the best he got was the little bit of syringe feeding I got down him. He has now been at the clinic close to 24 hours, and he still hasn't eaten. 8-|I know hydrating was #1, but seriously. >:(If I go a couple of days without food I get weak. He needs strength to deal with everything. The vet mentioned tube feeding that first day, I had asked about it in the first phone call, waiting til just before they closed, so he had been there all day. I asked about tube feeding, she went to check and said they are still discussing it. Really?? I'm going up this afternoon to talk to the vet, face to face. And visit Sky, of course.
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Post by lorddaxter on May 27, 2015 17:35:05 GMT
I dont think the vets get into at least 9am, maybe later depending if they have surgeries,have found this out the hard way myself, yes thats a lot to insure, I have all my dogs(3 now 2)insured as more stuff goes wrong with them and rambo as he is inside but my other cat hes not insured, it is expensive, no way id be able to insure all those cats!
I know its hard but try not to worry about the food too much, they may be hoping he will get hungry and eat on his own while hes there allowing you to take him home faster and look after him but if he doesnt at least they can jump in fast before it becomes a major issue.
Im a little worried this is dragging on so long, cats get depressed easily, glad you are talking to vet later:)
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Post by nhg on May 27, 2015 20:15:47 GMT
I didn't see this post earlier, I'm sorry. I hope he's going to be okay. Watching an animal get sick and knowing there's nothing you can do is heartbreaking and scary. Prayers for him and you.
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Post by kskatt on May 28, 2015 3:33:10 GMT
When this clinic opens, at 8am, the vets are available to see clients. They have to get there at least a little earlier to be ready.
I got to go in back and visit Sky pretty quickly, I said I wanted a consult for sure. Dr H, the original "primary" is back and Dr M wasn't there. Wish I'd looked at my watch, but I was in there a long time. After waiting and not finding out anything, I heard Dr H's voice and walked over to him. He was prepping to do dental work on a dog. I said I just wanted to be reassured that Sky had ever gotten any nutrients. Dr H stopped and looked at me, looking concerned. I told him that I had been sure to make it clear that Sky had stopped eating for all that time, I told him how I had tried and failed. I know that cats are different, if they go without food for very long they can go into liver failure and that I'm just scared. I told him about calling this am and being told the tubing was "being discussed, he shook his head and said, "not with me". Dr H headed straight for Sky and scanned the chart, mumbled about there being nothing there. Said Sky would be tubed "now". I watched, after Sky was returned to his cage I told him (Sky) to rest and concentrate on digesting. Then I just had to turn and walk out. I am furious, stunned, disappointed, name an emotion that could fit this and I'm feeling it.
So much involved. Who does the actual feeding? Are there no records kept? Somebody has to notice if any animal is not eating, aren't they suppose to report that? How long does an animal have to go before anything is done? Is there any communication at all? What about my call, what's up with the "discussion? By who? I need to write everything down, to make sure I don't lose everything when I get upset, talking to the head vet. I have been going there for over 35 years, because I always trusted them.
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Post by hugs on May 28, 2015 11:39:02 GMT
oh GOSH I am so sorry someone fucked up. Sorry for the language but you know what? IT FITS! I betcha that "discussing it" is just that gal's way of saying that nothing is being done that she can tell but someone there must be "working" on it. That gal is NOT doing her job AT ALL. She should have said, I don't see anything on that I'm going to leave a message for the vet (at the very least) or CALL ASAP would be better since she should KNOW (unless she's new and that is understandable) all that stuff you know about cats and not eating. (I didn't know that stuff but then we take our cats to the vet if something is just not right. In fact I made Gerald take Kittyhawk to the vet because her fur didn't seem right LOL)
Oh man, you just don't need incompetence in that situation AT ALL, this isn't a car or you we're talking about here! (didja catch that?)
I sure hope the next time I check on this thread Mr. Sky has been fed and is feeling better!
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Post by lorddaxter on May 28, 2015 12:13:41 GMT
Im sorry, thats awful, I would be pissed too, people do make mistakes but its not like its something you mentioned only once, hoping for a better update today:)
May be time to look for another vet practice and second opinion, Ive done it and will again
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Post by carshon on May 28, 2015 14:04:47 GMT
Poor Sky! Hope he gets better soon. I don't know how you get your cats to get along. We have 3 in the house and they HATE each other. Won't even barely go in the same room with each other. All 3 are neutered males. 2 are brothers from the same litter and about 14 years old and the third came in as a feral kitten (climbed into the engine of hubbys truck while he was at work) daughter caught and tamed him but he is a 1 person cat and HUGE - at 3 yrs old now he terrorizes the old boys so we keep them pretty much seperated. Wish ours could lay with each other.
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Post by Deleted on May 28, 2015 14:56:36 GMT
NOT GOOD! I would be hopping mad! You take your pet, your family member, to a vet, someone who is supposed to be able to provide the best care for them and they mess up like that?! I would be livid! So glad you were there to advocate for Sky, who knows how much longer he would have gone along like that without any nutrition!
I really hope he feels better soon.
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Post by kskatt on May 29, 2015 15:29:40 GMT
Must be brief, internet issues. Sky was a tiny bit better yesterday, at least noticed I was there. I had insisted on new blood work, when I called before going in, I wanted it complete so I could see if he was worse. Him raising his head was great, but gosh, still not what I had hoped for. But, the blood work was way better. White blood cell count way down and the kidney level was back in the normal range. Going back in today with any thing I can find to help his appetite.
Did talk to vet, more on that later.
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Post by mistersmom on May 29, 2015 15:39:21 GMT
Sounds like he is making a little progress, that's great. May need to tube him a time or two more just to get his strength up.
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Post by Deleted on May 29, 2015 16:15:17 GMT
I am glad to hear that there has been small positive progress made. I was thinking about poor Sky last night and wondering how he was doing. I am glad to hear that his bloodwork is looking better, that is definitely a good sign.
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Post by hugs on May 29, 2015 21:17:20 GMT
A little bit is better than none, so Yay for Sky! (love that name by the way). You keep on keeping on little kitty, we're all here rooting for you!
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Post by lorddaxter on May 29, 2015 21:52:03 GMT
What said and looking forward to hear what vet said
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Post by kskatt on May 30, 2015 3:12:01 GMT
A tiny bit better today. You have to look closely to see. My heart is starting to feel like it's being put through a cheese grater. The last thing I want is to keep him going if it's just for me. The vet did say if he was her cat, she would give it a few more days.
Dr M said she put off tubing him because the tubing is traumatic and stressful. I wouldn't think it that great for the throat either. The people, all young women, who man the counter and phones aren't hands on with the animals very much. Dr M was not there on the day the tubing was "being discussed" I don't know where they got their info, it was not from Dr M. The only info I'm going to trust is what I get first hand, in person. Not saying I'm completely satisfied, simply that I will be asking any questions in person and watching. Most of all I do not want to alienate the very people who are caring for Sky.
I am so very grateful for your support and prayers. Being able to come here keeps me sane.
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Post by hugs on May 30, 2015 10:50:33 GMT
Another "tiny bit better", that's just great! Sky wants to get better, he's trying. Sure I know it's uncomfortable but as a person who struggles through life with a lot of emotional pain anyway, I'd feel pretty bad if my loved ones gave up on me. I know it is a tough thing to have to be on the lookout for when your pet tells you that they're done. I am nearly crying thinking of similar distressful times in my life and I know I'll have them again because I have animals in my family. That's why your heart is so very big and is that crazy combination of soft and strong, the way only a true heart can be. You're doing just fine, you're doing the best that any one could do. And it sounds like the vets who are actually doing the work have got this and totally get what you and Sky are going through. Sure it isn't perfect, there are folks there who apparently need a lesson on "what's my ass and what's my brain" but you figured out a way past that.
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