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Post by horselady on Apr 12, 2023 2:12:02 GMT
well i personally think that human dna opens the door for so many questions
who is my dad
who is my sibling
who are my real parents
where did i come from
and why is it no one told me
venting venting i'm more than annoyed
things should be kept secret and not be brought up. hearts get heavy with all the questions
rant over ill have that drink now please
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Post by horselover4life on Apr 12, 2023 20:32:24 GMT
Pros and cons for this... A terrible debate, finger pointed and accusations can take place... the I would still think of my parent as one who raised me, spent their time with me and supported me in my hopes and dreams, along with my failures.
I have friends who were adopted and told when they could understand what it meant to be so wanted................ The only questions I would want answered would be medical, but today with so much known from DNA not sure that "background" is needed anymore either.
I offer  to anyone caught in the dilemma.... I see both sides but am not part of it. Knowing both my parents were my parents and DNA tests I've had done for other reasons prove that.
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Post by horselady on Apr 13, 2023 0:44:42 GMT
I agree that there are pros.
BUT what if siblings are not full blood siblings and there is one person that is a sibling that no one knew about.
a father who is not the father after everyone thought they were father and son?
finding out your not related to anyone that you thought was a family
sure who raised you and loved you BUT the secret should remain. thats my opinion
jo
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to anyone caught in the dilemma....